What is integrity - a worthy read

The Integrity Approach
Zig Ziglar
Fortunately, in our society today there is a hue and cry demanding that we return to ethical standards. It's a "buzzword" in our society -- and it's about time. Unfortunately, they're using the wrong word. The word we should be concerned about teaching is "integrity," because people with integrity will behave in an ethical manner.

Dr. Jay Strack says that "integrity involves realistic harmony of our talk and our walk. Integrity shines in the congruity of our behavior with our belief." Dr. Stephen Carter, in his book "Integrity," writes that it is "summarized as 'true virtue' with a sense of uprightness, honesty and sincerity. The Oxford English Dictionary includes three ideas: 'wholeness, perfection and uprightness.' Our colloquial expression is that people of integrity 'have it all together.'"

"Integrity is the lack of pretense," continues Strack. "In contrast to the image-polishing hype of a marketing-oriented world, it is the simple innocence of being one's transformed self without regard to the opinions or judgment of a godless society.

"Two word pictures of sincerity are instructive to the meaning of integrity. Our word 'sincere' actually is derived from two Latin words, sine and cere, which mean 'without' and 'wax.' In making furniture, wax was used to fill in pitch pockets and to conceal mars in the wood or mistakes of the carpenter. Skillfully treated with wax, the blemish was covered, looking well for sale but later hard usage or heat brought out the wax cover-up. A merchant of integrity would write on his products sine cere (without wax), guaranteeing genuineness."

The thought and message are clear: Live and act with integrity, and you will not only have genuine success but the peace of mind that goes with having a clear conscience. Take that approach, and I'll see you at the top!

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  St. Pius X Council No. 9262   

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                                                                 February  Meeting Agenda and Topics

 

1. Call to order    Opening with Hail Mary
2.  Present    Warden's Roll Call
3.  Reading of minutes from last meeting
4. Admissions Committee Report

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5. Grand Knight’s Report

                 Grand Knight’s council/ web site 

                  Awareness and charity campaign

                  Renewal process   

                  Project leaders and commitment

                  Charity number and outreach programs

 

V1-   Financial Secretary’s Report

-          Walter Gretzky Ball Hockey tournament

-          K of C charity car raffle Vice Chairman -       

           Free Throw Basketball competition,  

-         Shrove Tuesday  Gerry Barnett Chair

-         Degree program --- 3rd degree on march 28th.possible 12 canadites

-        Special agenda items  for discussion and clarification

 1/ what material the general member receives from state

•  . the Columbus, state bulletin/ knightline and have they got access to state and supreme via email.

2/ our African support payment due past year.

3/Accuracy and correction of others members re responsibilities

4/petty cash re accounts spending by members.

5/ Our position on the rosary being said in the chapel before mass.

6/ 3rd degree on march 28th.possible 12 canadites

7/buying, selling items that we purchase from supreme. free, at cost with markup or no markup. E G my Catechism

8/ arrangement with myself F/S of 9262 re unpaid dues before next meeting.

9/ results of shrove and release in parish bulletin.

10/ Overload of duties off F/S  suggests % payment of dues
special committees

set date for audit that was due feb15/10
set date for budget proposal food trailer

       V11    Treasurer’s Report

-        Account Balances            General __________ , Trust _______________ Charity __________

-        Review and discussion of budget .

        

8. Chaplain’s Report

9. Chancellor’s Report                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      new membership recruitment - membership communication.
           Membership survey 
           Columbian Squires./Youth programs
10.   Good of the order
11. Old business

                 committee chairman 

                     Church relations       

                    -Stamps for leprosy

                    - Smile projects

 

9.   New Business

                     new fellowship events/ trailor

            -       advocate on E-mail communication  

-       G.K. Council’s website.

-       Get “our word” out. impact and fraternity

-      outreach programs

-     Fun projects

11. Adjournment

-        Closing with Hail Mary.

 

  Minutes submitted by:                               Minutes accepted

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A knights star destiny thoughts

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Food for thought from S. Holle      22/02/2010        1  of   2

A Knight's star destiny – Lessons from the Maltese cross

 

Knight, when you were born, the 8 Cardinal Secrets of the Maltese Cross were destined to give you the direction for a winning life. What can we learn from the Maltese Cross and its lessons?

 

Dear Brother Knight,

 

"A voyage"

We want you to win! The moment that I saw this stunning Double Maltese Cross, I knew that it was a perfect fit for you. I know you are looking for change, and your desire to shape your life just the way that you want it is becoming stronger by the day. We have reached a turning point and will continue to grow.

 

Since we have been working together, I have seen you become more and more empowered in ways that are unique to you. In fact, you are now on the brink of winning the right to a healthier and wealthier life... this, Knight, is your true destiny. When You Were Born, You Were Destined to Become a Winner

 

There is no doubt that you've had to contend with setbacks and struggles over the years. But the truth is that you have come through them - with 'flying colors'! These circumstances of your birth had you come into this world at exactly the right time and in the right place to be predestined to achieve success and become a winner in life. But only if you take control and grab onto the one thing that can help you overcome the obstacles that have been blocking you thus far.

The Maltese cross

The One Thing You Need to Become a Winner, My Friend,

Is lessons of The Maltese Cross with Its 8 Cardinal Forces and

Its Empowering Combination of Faith and Talismanic Power.    

 

FROM THE 12TH CENTURY TO THE 21ST, ITS FASCINATING HISTORY

Andrew Bertie, the former head of the Order of Malta with Pope Benedict XVI
The origins of this piece go back for centuries. It was first used in 1126 as an identifying emblem for the Knights of St. John. Not only were these knights brave and adventurous soldiers, but they were also a Holy Order of monks, and in the 16th century they established a hospital on the tiny Mediterranean island of Malta. The Pope dedicated the foundation of this hospital.

 

 

Over time, the Knights of St. John transformed Malta into an island noted for its beautiful architecture and stunning artwork. Simultaneously, the familiar cross shape was          transformed into something unique to the Maltese Knights.

 

The arms each have 2 points, and the Cross resembles 4 arrow heads meeting in the center to create an 8-fold pattern. Each of these points was given a different Knightly virtue and the Cross acted as an aide-mémoire or even Mandala, to remind the knights of their duty.

 

These truths from the past become even more relevant and meaningful in 2010. In fact, they are wonderful reminders of the best way of manifesting a fulfilling and abundant life

 

 

 

Today's Relevant Truths  - 8 points from the Maltese cross to steer by-

 

COMMITMENT - Knight, fidelity is a somewhat old-fashioned word these days, but to cherish your family and friends is the very foundation of happiness. A winning life is all the more pleasurable when you are surrounded by loved ones to share it with.

 

FAITH - Believing in yourself, Knight, is crucial to a happy life. You must have faith so that you may aspire to the very best in life. Lately it has been hard for you to keep the faith...now it's time to let this cardinal force guide you.

 

WEALTH - Knight, I believe that at this precious time of your life, it's your turn to live richfully. Believing that you deserve a certain lifestyle is your first step to achieving a life of glorious wealth.

 

SUCCESS - There are many ways to measure success, but the most important one is that you manage to fulfill your potential that's so evident.

 

LOVE - It's really true that the more you give, the more you receive. Love is a powerful force. People who have experienced great hardship often say that the only thing that kept them going is knowing that they were loved. I want this cross to bring the force of love into your life.

 

POWER - To be powerful is to believe in yourself and the direction you have chosen. In following your true  destiny, you will become an incredible force of power.

 

PROSPERITY - This describes the good fortune surrounding your destiny. This can apply to your health as well as the amount of opportunities that are about to open up for you.

 

PROTECTION - Protection from negative energy is indeed a blessing. This cardinal force works like a force field of protection, as it will surround your life with radiant protective energy.

 

PROTECTION AND COURAGE: ESSENTIAL FOR YOU AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME, Knight

 

The Maltese Cross is worn as a badge of both protection and honor by many organizations, among them the New York Fire Department. The tiny Island of Malta is renowned for its bravery, honor and loyalty. Its strategic position between Italy and North Africa made it vulnerable to the Luftwaffe during World War II. However, it never fell to the Nazis and the Maltese people's faith in the Divine never wavered. In 1942, a German bomb fell through the roof of one of the biggest churches on the island. Hundreds were inside but no one was killed. (The people took this as a sign of faith and protection.)

 

Later the entire Island was awarded for bravery by the then King of England - the only time this has happened.

 

 

Have Faith in yourself and the Divine that is always guiding you, Knight, will always overcome negativity.

 

These 8 Cardinal Secrets, Knight, will bring amazing changes into your life. They will replace any insecurity and self-doubt, bringing you confidence and a sense of well-being that will affect everything you do. The incredible forces of the mysterious 8 cardinal points will win for you the right to a far healthier and wealthier life as they bring out your exceptional qualities of:

 

1 Intuitive 2 Caring for others 3 Imagination 4 Creative instincts

5 Receptive to ideas 6 Understanding 7 Compassion 8 Faith

 

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A positive message about who we are as Canadians

http://www.fcpp.org/media.php/1376  Worth watching

 

I agree that we need to stop special interest political correctness and those who are intolerant of our core Canadian values . Intolerance from any group is not an option .  - Pass it on -but more importantly lead by example and stand up for your christian values . Sieg Holle
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Moral compass needed to navigate life

There are Some Moral Absolutes  Zig Ziglar

Some things are just flat wrong, and some are absolutely right.

In this age of "relativity," many people suffer from the illusion that tolerance and relativity are the ways to go. Dr. Josh McDowell says that his surveys and studies show that our children's views about truth make a difference in their behavior.

His data proves that when our children do not accept an objective standard of truth, they are 48 percent more likely to cheat on exams, twice as likely to watch a pornographic film, two times more likely to steal, three times more likely to use illegal drugs, six times more likely to attempt suicide, two times more likely to be angry with life, two times more likely to be lacking purpose and two times more likely to be resentful.

Just as the compass gives us true north and the international time standards set exactness for time, there are truths that can be taught to our children that will benefit them all their lives. Admittedly, lying, cheating and stealing bring certain temporary advantages. However, when trust is destroyed -- as it ultimately will be -- the future of the individual who cannot be trusted is limited.

Unfortunately, parents often hide behind the old saw that they love their children too much to deny them anything. What they're saying is, "I'm not willing to risk finding out just how much authority I have and just how much my child loves me." Ironically, when there is divorce in the family, the child, when given the choice, will generally go with the parent who is more of a loving disciplinarian because children instinctively know their long-range best interests are served when absolutes are established.

Message: Parents, love your kids enough to do what is best for them, and I'll see you --and your kids -- at the top!

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 More hands with focused project leadership makes for better resolts in 2010

 

2010 Knights Causes and available service programs

Suggestions ,improvements or want to volunteer for projects ?   -Send this information by e-mail siegholle@gmail.com.Please include “Volunteer Service Program Suggestions” in the e-mail’s subject line.

 

Service Programs   for Volunteers    2010
Council renewal	Church	Community	Family	Youth	Pro-life /other
Membership Recruitment Leadership Jason Tl   Roundtables Boris Tl   good of order  -----------------------------	Keep Christ in life Sieg Tl     Value Advocacy  Sieg TL   Events Gerry TL	Blood clinic  Ken TL   Cause Fund Raising  Sieg TL   Leprosy Peter TL   Santa parade Marty TL   Special event mobile Ken TL	Core values  Pat Tl   Outreach  Fred TL     Seniors ---------------- ----------------	Free Throw Championship  Earnie TL     Walter Gretsky ball tournament  Louis TL   Socializers  Fred/jason TL	Communications events Dave? TL Andy
needed			needed		Team leaders

   

What will happen in the new decade? We can make a significant difference .

 

During the past decade Knights have contributed more than $1.5 Billion

and nearly 626 million volunteer hours to charity. We are a proud  part of a  128 years tradition of excellence  in doing good The Knights of Columbus,  are the largest Catholic family fraternal , non profit charity organization in the world with 1.7 million members

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Fighting rudness - tips

Rudeness Is Rampant    Pier Forni, PhD   Johns Hopkins University

In today's fast-paced, youth-oriented culture, ageism often results in rudeness to older people. To find out how to handle this type of rudeness, Bottom Line/Retirement spoke with Dr. Pier Forni, founder of the Civility Initiative at Johns Hopkins University and the author of two books on civility and rudeness...

Why not just ignore rudeness? After all, it usually amounts to little more than a few ill-mannered words or a gesture.

Rudeness isn't trivial. It can cause stress, weaken self-confidence and harm relationships.By addressing rudeness head-on, you discourage this kind of behavior while building self-esteem and reducing stress. The key to addressing rudeness is to do it firmly but politely.

What should you do when someone talks loudly and slowly even though your hearing is perfectly normal?

Sooner or later, most older people encounter this type of behavior, which may be a misguided attempt at being very polite.

You might be tempted just to listen and say nothing about it, but that's usually a mistake. The other person may not realize that he/she is being ill-mannered. So politely inform the person that your hearing is good. But don't get angry or make accusations, which often leads to a stress-inducing argument.

Something like this usually works: "I appreciate your wanting to make sure that I hear everything you say, but I can assure you that my hearing is fine."

Assuming that you know nothing about technology, a store clerk talks to you as though you were a child. How do you set the clerk straight?

If you are technologically savvy, mention something to the clerk that gets this point across.
If you're buying a computer, for example, you might tell the clerk that your current machine has a Pentium dual-core processor with a 250-gigabyte hard drive. The clerk will get the message.

On the other hand, if you don't know much about the product you're buying, do some homework before shopping -- a strategy that makes sense at any age.

A maître d' seats you at an uncomfortable table in the back of the restaurant. Meanwhile, younger customers are given better tables up front. What is the best way to handle this?
Immediately tell the maître d' that you want another table. If the second table he suggests isn't better, ask to speak with the manager.

Tell the manager something like this: "We're here to enjoy our dinner, but that will be difficult at this table. We don't want to leave, but we'll have to if you can't help us get a better one."
Never be afraid to leave an establishment where you're not treated well. In this case, remember that you're paying the same prices that younger diners at the front tables pay. Sure, you may wind up having to go to another restaurant, but the inconvenience will probably be more tolerable than sitting through a meal at a table that you dislike.

According to the stereotype, older people often drive too slowly. So what should you do when you're driving at the speed limit but the driver behind you honks, flashes his lights or even tailgates?

Driving is one of the few occasions when you shouldn't confront a rude person. Rude drivers are often under stress, and confronting them can lead to an accident.

Instead, depersonalize the incident. Take a deep breath and remind yourself that the other driver would likely honk at any car that was driving at only the speed limit. In fact, the driver probably hasn't even noticed that you're older. So let him pass, and resist the temptation to curse or make a hand gesture, which risks escalating the incident into violence.

And don't equate honking with rudeness. The other driver may actually have an emergency and need to get around you. More likely, however, he's just having a bad day. (It happens to all of us.)

Incidents like this illustrate an important point: Happiness in life depends on being satisfied with our decisions -- not immediately after we make them, but later on when there's time to reflect. It might be immediately satisfying to curse or make a hand gesture, but on reflection, you'll almost certainly regret stooping to someone else's level or being rude yourself.

Today, e-mail from friends can be a major source of rudeness, typically in the form of forwarded messages with coarse jokes, political commentaries, etc. What's the best way of dealing with them?

Don't shy away from asking the sender -- either by e-mail or telephone -- to stop mailing these messages to you. Politely say that you appreciate the information but that you don't have time to read it. Then, if the sender is a friend, consider making a gracious gesture, such as saying that you would like to get together for lunch or coffee in the near future.
In fact, being considerate and civil can go a long way in preventing many types of rudeness.

 

 Most people you deal with will take that attitude as a cue to respond in kind.
For example, when you go to a restaurant, greet the maître d' with a warm smile and say something along these lines: "Tonight is a special occasion for us. We would really like the best table available." You'll almost always get a better table than if you entered the restaurant with a demanding look on your face.
Actually, just smiling can often prevent being slighted. If you're standing at a store counter and others are served first, for instance, tell the clerk, "I've been waiting for some time and just want to make sure that you know I'm here."

Be polite and smile when you speak. Smiling tells the other person that dealing with you will be a pleasant experience... that you want to build rapport, not start an argument.
If you have any doubts about the way others perceive your attitude, ask for an honest opinion from a close friend. All too often, we assume that we're polite and put on a pleasant face when we deal with strangers, but that's not always the case, especially in today's often stressful world. The opinion of a good friend can help you see yourself as others do.

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age myth and health cost exposed to be wrong

When did longevity become such a bad thing? People are living
longer, yes, but also healthier lives. The healthcare budget is
burgeoning not because we are aging but because everyone is
using the healthcare system more and the treatments are much
more costly. So say the experts. But the myth persists that
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Enjoy a special day

Happy ST Valentines day -


A day for romance and love
- a little background on this important day



But there is no doubt that everyone celebrates February 14th or Valentine's day.Many exchange cards, candy, flowers, and gifts with their loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. The tradition of sending valentines is actually a very old one and I thought it would be entertaining to do a little research on this holiday that speaks to the heart. The oldest known valentine in existence today is a poem sent by Charles, Duke of Orleans, to his wife in 1415 while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. But the beginning of Valentine's Day goes even further back in history.





Pope Gelasius declared February 14th to be St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. And during the Middle Ages it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of bird mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February — Valentine's Day — should be a day for romance.



Friends , you might be surprised to know that we can't really verify for certain the real story behind St. Valentine's Day. According to one legend. Valentine was a priest who lived during the third century in Rome during the reign of Emperor Claudius II. Emperor Claudius decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, and as a result he outlawed marriage for young men. Realizing the injustice of the decree, Valentine defied Claudius and married young lovers in secret. When Valentine's clandestine actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.



Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.



My favorite legend concerning Valentine is that he actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself, from prison. According to this story, Valentine fell in love with a young girl that may have been his jailor's daughter, who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today.



Friends , while the facts behind the legends of Valentine are far from clear, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no wonder that Valentine's Day caught on as a day of sharing love and romance. However you decide to spend this day, I hope that you are doing something that warms your heart. Happy Valentine's Day!

Integrity,family values and a Pope that "leads"and shines by example

Pope speaks out against child abuse

VATICAN CITY (UPI) -- Pope Benedict XVI said Monday from Vatican City he condemns violence against children, particularly acts of abuse committed within the Catholic Church.

The Italian news agency ANSA said the pope made his comments during an assembly of the Vatican's Pontifical Council for the Family and Benedict said acts of abuse within the church violated basic principles of Christianity.

"Over the centuries the church, following in Christ's footsteps, has promoted the protection of the dignity and rights of minors,'' the pope said.

''Unfortunately, there have been several cases in which its members have acted against this commitment and violated the rights (of children)," Benedict added.

The pope also took time Monday to address the impact that family problems such as divorce can have on children, ANSA reported.

"Divisions between parents, particularly separation and divorce, are not without consequences for children,'' Benedict said.

"Children want to be loved by a mother and a father that love one another,'' he added.



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More on the Knights renewal quest and process - " leaving no one behind "

To build a better organization selling renewal is a constant necessity

                   ( Fact If you stop growing , you start dying - SH )

 

Think of it this way, you're not simply selling a product or service. You are selling the potential client on making a change. Robert Potter writes, "There are predictable stages that companies go through in order to change. As a salesperson, you need to be aware of these. Companies decide to change in three stages:

Stage 1: Awareness and assessment (Motivation). At this stage the insight they have is this: There's a good reason to abandon our current way of doing things.

Stage 2: Solutions search (Vision). The insight the company or group has: There is a much better way of doing things.

Stage 3: Evaluation and choice (Path to resolution). Insight: There is a safe and reliable way to get there.

As a person, you have to build the case that the old way needs to be abandoned. You need to ask them why they want to look at changing. Then you can move to your solution. See, if they are not committed to change, they'll never buy your solution.

Good questions to ask potential members or customers as they're considering a change include the following:

-- Who will be affected the most by this change?

-- Why are you even considering the change?

-- Who will be the most vocal in opposing this solution?

-- Who can sabotage or undercut this initiative?

-- What happens if you do nothing?

-- When will you decide on whether or not you're even going to make a change?

-- Is there a champion for this?

-- Whom does he or she have to sell internally?

-- What are their likely objections?

-- Who's going to sell the solution to the other stakeholders or participants ?

-- How are you selling it to the stakeholders or participants?

-- Where are you going to need help?

Sales cycles are longer in a complex sale because you are selling change and not just products or services. The change affects more people in the company or urganization than the decision makers, and the decision makers often have to sell the others on their decision so there's buy-in for change. You need to ask questions about the change and not simply about the problem. Then and only then can you sell solutions -short or long term
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A monk's lesson on forgiveness

What Are You Still Carrying?

"If you are angry, don't sin by nursing your grudge. Don't let the sun go down with you still angry—get over it quickly; for when you are angry you give a mighty foothold to the devil."1

The story or legend is told how two monks, when traveling back to their monastery in inclement weather, came to the fjord of a river. There they met a young woman who was afraid to cross the river. Seeing her dilemma one of the monks offered to carry her across the river on his back which offer she accepted.

Later that evening the monk who didn't help the young lady accused the monk who did of breaking the rules of their monastic order. "You know we are to have no dealings with the opposite sex," he said, "and you were wrong in doing what you did."

To which the other monk quietly replied, "I carried her only across the river. You are carrying her still."

When we fail to resolve our anger, and keep nursing our grudges, we not only give a "mighty foothold to the devil," but we also hurt ourselves, damage our physical well-being, and do serious harm to our close relationships. As another has said, when we nurse our grudges and fail to forgive those who have hurt us, "It's like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die."

So, is there anything you are still carrying? Any grudges, resentments, bitterness, hurts, unresolved grief? If so, I urge you to follow the advice of the Scriptures and resolve these issues right away. And, if necessary, see a qualified counselor to help you to do so. Your health and relationships depend on it.

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Volunteers needed to help in the Feb Haiti Relief fumd raiser

Quick Knights Event Summary- not released


Knights of Columbus hosting a Family Fun “Haiti” Fund Raising Event at Harmony Square

Date: 28th Feb

Place: Harmony Square

Time: from 130pm-430pm

Fund Raising event will feature a “Family” skating event...theme

With funds raised going direct to Haiti orphanages

Tax receipts will be provided



International Village Ambassadors participating with

Universities

Colleges

High Schools

Other


K. of C ...inviting Mayor, MP, MPP

Opening Ceremony scheduled for 2pm

Put a smile on your face

How many of these can you smile about ?

Murphy's Real Laws, Part I
1. Everyone has a photographic memory. Some don't have film.

2. He who laughs last, thinks slowest.

3. A day without sunshine is like, well, night.

4. Change is inevitable, except from a vending machine.

5. Back up my hard drive? How do I put it in reverse?

6.I just got lost in thought. It was unfamiliar territory.

7. When the chips are down, the buffalo is empty.

8. Seen it all, done it all. Can't remember most of it.

9. Those who live by the sword get shot by those who don't.

10. I feel like I'm diagonally parked in a parallel universe.

11. He's not dead. He's electroencephalographically challenged.

12. She's always late. In fact, her ancestors arrived on the "Juneflower."

13. You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say will be misquoted and used against you.

14. I wonder how much deeper the ocean would be without sponges.

15. Honk if you love peace and quiet.

16. Pardon my driving, I'm reloading.

17. Despite the cost of living, have you noticed how it remains so popular?

Murphy's Real Laws, Part II
18. Nothing is foolproof to a sufficiently talented fool.

19. It is hard to understand how a cemetery can raise its burial costs and blame it on the higher cost of living.

20. Just remember if it wasn't for gravity, we'd all fall off.

21. The 50-50-90 rule: Anytime you have a 50-50 chance of getting something right, there's a 90% probability you'll get it wrong.

22. It is said that if you line up all the cars in the world end to end, someone would be stupid enough to try and pass them.

23. You can't have everything. Where would you put it?

24. Latest survey shows that 3 out of 4 people make up 75% of the world population.

25. If the shoe fits, get another one just like it.

26. The things that come to those that wait may be the things left by those who got there first.

27. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach a man to fish and he will sit in a boat all day drinking.

28. Flashlight: A case for holding dead batteries.

29. The shin bone is a device for finding furniture.

30. A fine is a tax for doing wrong. A tax is a fine for doing well.

31. It was recently discovered that research causes cancer in rats.

32. Everybody lies, but it doesn't matter since nobody listens.

33.I wished the buck stopped here, as I could use a few.

34. I started out with nothing, and I still have most of it.

35. When you go into court, you are putting yourself in the hands of 12 people who weren't smart enough to get out of jury duty.

36. Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

19. It is hard to understand how a cemetery can raise its burial costs and blame it on the higher cost of living.

20. Just remember if it wasn't for gravity, we'd all fall off.

21. The 50-50-90 rule: Anytime you have a 50-50 chance of getting something right, there's a 90% probability you'll get it wrong.

22. It is said that if you line up all the cars in the world end to end, someone would be stupid enough to try and pass them.

23. You can't have everything. Where would you put it?

24. Latest survey shows that 3 out of 4 people make up 75% of the world population.

25. If the shoe fits, get another one just like it.

26. The things that come to those that wait may be the things left by those who got there first.

27. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach a man to fish and he will sit in a boat all day drinking.

28. Flashlight: A case for holding dead batteries.

29. The shin bone is a device for finding furniture.

30. A fine is a tax for doing wrong. A tax is a fine for doing well.

31. It was recently discovered that research causes cancer in rats.

32. Everybody lies, but it doesn't matter since nobody listens.

33.I wished the buck stopped here, as I could use a few.

34. I started out with nothing, and I still have most of it.

35. When you go into court, you are putting yourself in the hands of 12 people who weren't smart enough to get out of jury duty.

36. Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

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